“Choose your ‘tude”
This is my personal summery of something I read when the Hubby an I were going through pre-marital counseling. The book was “Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts: Seven Questions to Ask Before and After You Marry ” By Les and Leslie Parrott
One of the chapters talked about how you react is your choice. Your spouse may say or do something very hurtful (intentionally or not) but how you react is your choice. This is something I know for a fact we can all work on. Maybe your Husband said something that truly just came out wrong, if I jump all over him we are going to have a full blown argument instead of a simple miss-understanding. Think about how you react to things your spouse says how many times your attitude or reaction has made the situation worse. See how much choosing your ‘tude can help? Try it, its an everyday every moment thing that no one will ever be perfect at.